I don't really know what to do with the summer of 1980 incident because its sexual in content.
My wife and I basically woke up in the middle of sex, it was like we were being controlled like puppets. And usually if I even touched my wife while she was sleeping I'd get smacked and bitched at.
We had never done that before or since and both of us said what the hell just happened?
And it was a few months after that when something miscarried into the toilet and she flushed. And that upset her, not the miscarriage just the strange fetus the was produced.